Be miserable and wallow in self pity.
Or motivate yourself.
Whatever has to be done, it’s always your choice.
Happiness is completely from within and you should never deny it to anyone, especially oneself.
Make the choice to be Happy. Be strong enough to make that choice and the confidence/balls to yell it from a mountain top..
And if you cant, shut your mouth until you figure it out. 
~~AJHC